If you’ve ever wondered, “are my sexual fantasies normal?”, the answer is almost definitely yes. It’s completely normal to fantasize about different sexual acts and scenarios — in fact, almost everyone does it. It’s also normal to fantasize about something taboo or different from what you’d do in real life. If you are interested in …
I’ve written about feminism, sex, and other fun topics for The New York Times, The Washington Post, New York Magazine, Vice, Glamour, Playboy, and other publications you might’ve heard of. I’ve served as an editor for Teen Vogue, Vice, and Complex and discussed gender and sexuality on many radio shows, podcasts, and conferences including SXSW. My essays have been published in several books, and Whoopi Goldberg once cited one of my articles on The View in a debate over whether asking for what you want in bed is a feminist act. (I’d say it is.)