Hot threesome always makes our minds sparkle whether we have this thought. This is probably the most common fantasy within men and women. It doesn’t matter if it’s male-female-male or female-male-female; either way, threesomes are fabulous.
Although it can get awkward when there are three people in bed. What to do? What are the rules? What positions are good and suitable? I am here to be your guidance. In a threesome topic, you should have one, especially if this is going to be your first threesome.
Ménages-à-Trois rules and tips
You are going to have a threesome with your partner plus one more guest or just two random friends. Those are two different types of relationships to have while arranging hot and stunning threesome.
I remember the story when my bestie had a threesome with two guys. She told me about that on her way to their place, and she was damn excited about the idea of two whole men pleasing her all night long. In reality, those two guys thought that they got their porn threesome fantasy alive. Of course, my friend didn’t enjoy that threesome so much. The entire thing was just too odd and sometimes too awkward. For instance, one of the guys didn’t want to kiss her after the High Five position nor go down on her.
On the other hand, my favourite couple occasionally has unicorn dates. They, as a couple, like to have FMF over, because girls are great, as the male in that situation says. Usually, they have a first and only date with one of the chosen girls, and if the vibe is great, three of them end up in one bed. Easy like that, and none of them is jealous or has hurt feelings.
To avoid the first scenario and know how to reach example number two, here are some main tips and rules for threesomes
For singles
- Make sure you have everyone’s consent. Everyone should enjoy themselves and others in bed.
- Talk through the boundaries and limits. For far, each of you is willing to go. It might not be precisely rough BDSM threesome, yet everyone should be comfortable with what they are going to participate in.
- Be open-minded. A lot of people feel uncomfortable to have oral sex or like, in the case with my friend, even to kiss one another. Leave that bullshit behind. Being disgust like that reminds me of people who want to try anal but don’t like the dirty stuff that, let’s face it, can appear a little. Accept the fact that you should be all-in in this.
- Use protection. It doesn’t matter if you have known each other for ages or have just met like an hour ago. All of you should use condoms. Won’t hurt to add lube as well.
For couples
- Make sure you both are ready for this step, and there will be no hurt feelings before, during, and after the threesome. This is important to talk through at the beginning, just the two of you.
- Don’t have a threesome “to save the relationship.” In 99% of cases, this doesn’t work, and, quite the opposite, hurts even more.
- Don’t rush it. The more you put the organization in it — the less fun it will be as a result. Take it slow, look around, and think wisely but with lust.
- Prepare the scene. If you found that third person, try not to invite him or her to your house. Make a day out of it, rent a hotel room, for instance, where no one will disturb you and afterwards you all can get back to your regular lives.
- All three should be involved. There is no place for the third wheel in threesomes. The main key to it is effective threesome positions.
Double penetration threesome positions for MMF combination
I collected 5 most approachable and comfortable threesome sex positions to make MFM and double penetration as hot as in the best Brazzers porn videos with that bold guy.
The high five doggy
Sexy position and probably every guy’s dream to try it in real life. It is easy to access. Your hot female should be in a doggy position. One of you penetrates her from behind while the other one receives a blowjob. Then switch.
To make it more interesting, use dirty talk, spanking from one side and hair pilling from the other side. The girl in between, meanwhile, will get the most pleasure out of it. Do add even more to it, the guy from behind can access her clit or use a sex toy to play around, and the guy up front should use his hands to please her nipples. Remember that all three of you should enjoy sex.
The doggy blowjob
Similar position to a high five doggy. Although, better for shy guys. For those who do not feel comfortable facing another man during sex, like it is happening in high five.
In this case, a girl stays in quite the same position. The guy from behind penetrates her while she is giving a blowjob to another guy who is laying on his back. The eyes could be closed, and afterwards, either guys switch places, or a girl turns around.
Double penetration
The main MFM fantasy. Double penetration makes those toes crawl even while thinking about it. One of the guys is on his back, the girl is on top of him in a cowgirl position but preferably on her foot instead of keens, and finally, the other guy is standing behind the girl to penetrate.
The standing guy gets to penetrate anal and the bottom guy gets vagina. You might want to discuss who wants what or who gets which side first. A woman between you two, meanwhile, has the best time of her life. She would feel two penises rubs against one another inside of her which will make her reach multiple orgasms and get to that G-spot with no trouble. Add a little remote vibrator to stimulate her clit, and she will get triple pleasure — every girl’s dream.
The Daisy chain
For this position, you have to be open-minded. Either way, it won’t work. All three of you should lay in a circle facing genitals. That way one of the guys will be facing another penis, and if you are not ready to a full diverse oral sex, the position is not for you.
Though the chain position is awesome for giving and receiving at the same time and altogether, take your time with it and enjoy each other—no need to rush for the orgasm here. If you want, you can use it as foreplay before the penetration.
Reverse high five
Another awesome position for open-minded, queer, and bisexual people. If in a regular high five position, the girl is the one who is switching in between two guys, in reverse high five a man is the one who is penetrated by the other one from behind. The girl is on her back, resting and receiving oral sex.
It will be a perfect solution for guys who wants to have anal sex during a threesome and for a girl if her main pleasure point is her clit and oral sex in general. Don’t forget lots of lube, condoms, and sex toys of your choice.
The blowjob switch
Easy-peasy oral position for the foreplay games or the final minutes of the entire intercourse — or add it somewhere in the middle. Whatever you feel like.
A woman is on her knees — be nice and put a pillow under her knees — while men are standing facing each other. A girl is in the middle of it, giving blowjobs to both of the guys in order or all together or sucking on one penis and stroking another. It depends on how she likes it. The position is good to observe everything that is going on down there.
FFM threesome positions
FFM threesomes are easier and lighter to get into between single people. Lots of women don’t have a mental barrier to have sex with the same gender, which makes it more fun. Below there are 5 easy-pleasing positions to finally have that threesome with your bestie and a guy you both like.
The fever dream
One of the girls is on her side while a guy penetrates another from behind. The girl who is on her side opens up her legs wide and copes with the foot behind guy’s thighs, which gives the other girl full access to the view.
She can lick the clit while the guy penetrates and after giving a little blowjob in between. Meanwhile, one girl is on the side, enjoying herself and stimulates her friend’s clit.
The watch’n’learn
The position was created for men to learn the best possible way to give a woman orally. While a man is stroking, watching, and learning all techniques, girls have a chance to go down.
Take your time, switch places, the girl who is receiving oral can also suck the penis of a guy. Bring toys, explore each other’s body, and have the most fun out of it.
Best sandwich
One girl is on her back, and another girl is on top of her, a guy is behind and penetrating them both, hole by hole.
Both girls can add a little bullet vibrator in between friends for more stimulation, or use fingers and rub against each other. A guy can go even further and penetrate both girls at the same time by using dildo — penis in one, dildo in the other. Penetrate, switch, repeat.
The double cowgirl
This is my favorite threesome position for FMF sex. While a man is on his back, one of the girls is riding him in a cowgirl position, when the other is riding his face.
Riding a guy together, girls get to make out with each other. All possible pleasure included in the price.
The chain link
Probably the most common porn set for threesomes, where a couple has a female guest over. Here is everything about combining penetration and oral, together with ultimate eye contact.
One girl and a guy are in a doggy position, and the third chick sits near on the couch and gets an oral session by her female friend. It is not necessary to sit facing everyone. She can turn herself halfway and make out with a guy at the same time.
Double blowjob
This is a pure dream for a man. Having his penis in two mouths at the same time.
Make him sit on the bed or a sofa, legs wide open. After all, he has to make room for both of you. Here is where you get to get as wild as possible. Make sure you are a team and work as such. Together you can lick the tip of the penis, suck it on the sides, and have his balls licked — one for each. But if one of you suck on it — you should find how to entertain yourself meanwhile. You can pray your tea-bagging, for instance. Both of you can drive him crazy.
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The three-sum-up
Girls are great, guys are great, threesomes are great. I’ve chosen positions to ease it up and wipe away the awkwardness for you. Up to you to spice it up in any kinky or gymnastic way.
Most importantly is to stay physically and mentally healthy before, during, and after a threesome. Always make sure all the participants are okay, use condoms together with lube, and don’t expect anything but fun and physical pleasure.
FAQ
What is the best position for MFM threesome?
The best position depends on your personal preferences and flexibility. The high five and double penetration appears to be the most popular within others and quite comfortable as well.
What are the comfortable positions for FMF threesome?
The best sandwich and double cowgirl are the most comfortable and accessible FMF positions for a threesome.
Can I save my relationship by agreeing to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another woman?
We doubt that it will 100% help or help at all, to be honest. Threesomes are mostly for fun and sexual exploring inner self, and it is far away from the couple therapy. Won’t suggest.
Where to find the third person?
Those could be your open-minded friends, and you can meet someone at the bar or a club. So far, the most popular way is dating apps. For instance, Pure is one of those apps that will connect you with people in your area for an instant offline meetup. You connect there, talk for an hour and decide whether you want to meet up in person or move onto the next person.
What is the best approach to get all three people together for a threesome?
It could be anything. The less you plan it — the better the outcome will be. Maybe you will get too tipsy at a friend’s party, or that couple seems hot and had been checking you out for like 10 minutes now. The main point though is that all of you should feel comfortable mentally and physically around each other. Let the chemistry do its work.
How to tell my boyfriend that I want a threesome with another man?
First of all, you should test the water and see if he even considers this idea sexy. Try to describe to him how you imagine it can happen. Make a point that it is for fun only and doesn’t involve any romantic feeling towards any other person that is a third in your bed. Find a person who would be a perfect match for you both and experiment as much as possible.
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