I remember my failed threesome. It mostly failed because of the different expectations of all three people who were involved. One guy wasn’t expecting me to come over at all, so he acted boring like he was disappointed that I came along. On my end, I was expecting both men to please me. And the other dude thought he magically teleported to his favorite porn video. Everything ended up not pretty and I left the minute I didn’t like the vibe.
Threesome is always a sensitive topic as a lot of people are doing it without any particular reason. Whereas the reason should be exploring and fulfilling your inner fantasies. I don’t want you to go through the same experience as I did, so I’ll talk on how to master that damn threesome thing so that all parties will enjoy it!
How to Start
How to have a threesome? Easy! The very first thing that you should decide on is if you want to try a threesome at all. I hope you do. And then the next step would be to decide on what kind of threesome you want. We will talk about two traditional ones: MMF (male+male+female) and MFF (male+female+female). Now you can adjust it however you want as a part of the LGBTQ+ community. For instance, all the parties can be bisexual, transgender, queer, or non-binary.
This is why I love the idea of a threesome. You can go beyond the “normal” and unleash your sexual imagination. All you need is a few main tips and group rules, to begin with, along with two other people. Don’t panic if you don’t have anyone. I know the exact place where to find those partners. I’ll get back to that in a bit.
Threesomes Ground Rules
I call it rules as main tips cannot be avoided. If you and your partners are okay and your own set of those tips slash rules, you good. Just do whatever feels right for all of you. If you are a newbie, I would suggest paying attention to those.
Be open-minded. That is obvious, but sometimes we do think that we are okay with all of it until it’s happening in real life. And then something might trigger your mind and you’d back off. Like in case with me. I was like, what do you mean one of them won’t kiss me on my mouth? Is he out of his mind? So the vibe was changed and just that his one sentence made my vagina dry. He had issues. If you have a fantasy to have a threesome, be ready to go all the way and keep it nasty.
I love Pure because even its design inspires you to become a free spirit, in case you ain’t one yet. You can be open and stress-free. Users are open-minded and active. Their ads express their intentions so you might want to avoid small talk and jump right into that hurricane of sexual fantasies.
Have a conversation altogether. Again, if it is a planned threesome — talk. Talk about all your expectations, desires, what you are willing to try, or what is forbidden for you. Now when I say have a conversation, I mean get together, have a drink or two, some snacks, and talk through. It’s not supposed to look like an office meeting with contacts and PPT’s.
If your threesome is unplanned, relax and go with the flow. Either way, do not overthink it.
Get condoms and lube! The more the better. Everyone can pitch-in (lol) and bring a pack and a bottle of lube. Imagine you are hot and in the middle of the hottest sex position you always wanted to try and then you run out of condoms. Or someone’s body needs a bit of help. What are you gonna do? Run to the drugstore? The mood will be gone.
Get ready to get your sheets dirty. Make sure those are clean in the first place and be ready that they would need washing after you guys are done. Having an extra towel or two would work as well. You know, just in case.
Communicate with each other. This one’s for you to speak up during the threesome. All from “let me put my leg right here” to all the dirty talk you can think of.
Don’t get shit-faced. Having a drink or two is fine, but if you are over with 5+ drinks it might get awkward and silly. Trust me, it does not look pretty.
MFF Threesome Positions
Watch’n’learn
An easy one and very sexy. While the male partner is penetrating one female she can eat out the other one who is laying on her back or is in a sitting position, depending on what is more comfortable at the moment.
The double cowgirl position
My personal favorite because all 3 are participating at most. Both girls are on top. One is riding the penis and the other is riding the man’s face. Two girls can touch each other and makeout. The man meanwhile is quite busy. To spice it up you can try reverse cowgirl position. One of the girls or both can be turned around. Again, that would feel awesome for the man.
MMF Threesome Positions
The doggy blowjob
The most common threesome porn position. Won’t lie, it is comfortable and a great turn on. One man places himself to penetrate from behind and the other guy is on his knees. The point is to make a female feel comfortable as she is doing a lot here.
The double penetration
You would be surprised to learn how many females dream about his kind of threesome position. Also, it is a very common porn scenario. A female’s job during penetration is to stay mostly still.
As for guys, it is important that both would understand and BE OKAY with the fact that their bodies will be touched against each other.
One guy who is going to penetrate vagina first should be either lying or sitting. The female is in a riding cowgirl position, the other guy should take the most comfortable position from behind (kneeling or standing.) Don’t forget to use condoms and lots of lube.
Threesome Stories That I’ve Heard
Now I shared a few little previews of my stories, but here are a few that people were sharing online as well.
To Sum Up. Threesome is Great!
After close consideration, I hope you came to the conclusion that threesome is great indeed! If that was your long-term dream that you secretly wished to fulfill, just 100% go with it. Talk with your partner, invite a few friends over who can be down for it, or go online, download Pure, and find strangers to experiment. You know all the main sex positions and ground rules. I think you are fully armed and prepared. To finish the look, you need to have desire, confidence, and free spirit to go with it. Take it easy and have as much threesome sex as possible!
FAQ
Will a threesome save my relationship?
Threesome is not the way to give your relationship a second chance. If you want a threesome, do it with new people. Or one last time before you break up.
How can I bring the idea of a threesome to my partner?
The best way to bring it up is by communication. Now the world of technologies brought us all kinds of ways to start such a topic. You can mention it in a flirty sext, or compliment on a third party in the presence of your partner and then get tipsy and have an honest conversation.
Where can I find threesome partners?
If you are looking for threesome partners, you can look within your friends and people who you know and are attracted to, who also might be down for it. the other source — dating/hookups apps. For example, Pure is the app that has a lot of open-minded users who are into sexual experimenting.
What position can I try for the MMF threesome?
The doggy blowjob and double penetration are the most common threesome sex positions for MMF. Choose a doggy blowjob as a starter and then move onto double penetration.
What position can I try for the MFF threesome?
You can try Watch’n’learn position and double cowgirl. Both are great, to begin with, and are comfortable for all three of you.
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