| Position | Difficulty | Orgasm rating |
| Missionary position and CAT | Easy | ★★★★☆ |
| Doggy style | Easy | ★★★★★ |
| Laying doggy | Easy | ★★★★☆ |
| Cowgirl | Medium | ★★★★★ |
| Reverse cowgirl | Medium | ★★★★☆ |
| Lotus position | Easy | ★★★☆☆ |
| Sideways straddle | Medium | ★★★★☆ |
| The bridge | Hard | ★★★★☆ |
| The banana split | Hard | ★★★★★ |
| Sexy spooning | Easy | ★★★☆☆ |
| From behind in the shower | Easy | ★★★☆☆ |
| All up to the ceiling | Easy | ★★★☆☆ |
| Standing doggy | Medium | ★★★★☆ |
| Side scissoring | Medium | ★★★★☆ |
| The up and over | Medium | ★★★☆☆ |
| The missionary from behind | Easy | ★★★★☆ |
| The girl power | Hard | ★★★☆☆ |
| Child’s pose | Medium | ★★★☆☆ |
The world is divided into women who are easy to cum and those that would take a while and might not have the needed outcome.
We got your back, and after the detailed research of all possible positions we got 17 best positions for you to finally have those orgasms.
What could possibly block your orgasms
A lot of women can’t cum during the vaginal sex because there is not enough stimulation for their clit and so, means not enough to reach the orgasm. Women have their clits on a different distance from the vagina — some closer some further.
You can consider yourself a very lucky one if your clit and vagina are a distance of an inch or less. If not — you need to work harder to come to the end.
Another reason for this to happen and could be hard to cum during vaginal sex when your G-spot is hidden somewhere further than others. You may not know it, but G-spot is the part of your inner clit. See where we are going with this? Clitoral stimulation runs the orgasm world.
Tried and tested sex positions to cum
Another important part of reaching orgasm is sex positions. Here is where we can get creative. No need to run for Kamasutra right away, we got you. We studied Kamasutra for you and came up with 17 most successful sex positions that would lead to the orgasm point.
Missionary position and what is CAT
We say missionary is underrated and deserves more attention. Once you approach the position correctly, you will be rewarded with orgasm benefit, basically why we are all here. The principal of the missionary is simple. You are relaxed laying on your back, and a man is on top of you. To be “out there” physically, bring a pillow under your bum. TYou would get a chance to feel closer with your partner.
Now let’s proceed to sex toys. Why don’t you use a bullet remote vibrator for your clit or a simple penis ring will level up both of your pleasures.
The other important part of the missionary position is the Coital Alignment Technique or simply CAT — the magic technique that helps you to reach orgasms in a missionary position. That means that you should also be active during sex with this position. As we mentioned before, the pillow under will be great, as well as you working your hips towards your man. He, on his end, should try more of a rocking motion rather than thrusting.
We are sure most of you tried to experiment with CAT yourself, and now you know that you’ve been using technique since 1988.
Doggy style
We haven’t met a man in this world who would not like doggy position. The entire porn industry was built thanks to the doggy position. On the other hand, women tend to dislike it, as they assume it is more for fucking than making love. One of the reasons that men become rougher from behind, and there is no intimate eye contact.
Romantic movies were created to show the false beauty of slow intimacy. Not let’s admit, that to reach the orgasm, both of you have to put in some work. And we say doggy is amazing for both.
Men get to fantasies, and pull hair, and spank your ass. Although, you get the way better feeling and understanding of your G-spot. Don’t be shy and ask your man to try all kinds of thrusting techniques and change the speed as much as he can think of. Besides, you can stimulate your clit and his balls slapping against your clit also brings a lot of stimulation joy.
Trick that you can try and no one is sharing this – is to thrust yourself against him on your own. You are the boss of the speed and the depth here. Place your feet behind his knees if that will be easier for you and go ahead.
He also can change the position of his knees. He can try to switch knees and be standing on one knee and his foot. That way, he can hit different zones inside of you. If you feel pain — stop immediately. If not — carry on and explore.
Laying doggy
Laying doggy position aka boat aka flat doggy style aka whatever the name it. You can find so many names for this position that we lost count.
This one is awesome and easy to reach the orgasm. Laying doggy is amazing to cum while stimulating yourself. You are laying on your stomach, throw a pillow under your hips, that will help him to have better access to penetrate and that way you will get more space to place your hand on your clit or circle around with your little or not that small vibrator. Man can either be fully on top of you, wrapping his hands around you and place his hand on your breasts or be in a sitting position and holding your hips.
This position will definitely work but do not recommend trying if the guy does not have a long enough penis. Don’t get us wrong, all penises are great. Although, for this particular position, length plays the role. You can end up frustrated as it will keep falling out.
Cowgirl
Ultimate powerful position for reaching the orgasm. You are in power to hold back if it’s too deep or slow down if it’s too fast. You can play around it as much as you want. Hold this hand, trapped to feel in control. One hand holding his hands, the other stimulates clit or leads the sex toy to do all the job, and on top of that, you are riding the penis. At first, it might seem like a lot of work, so if it does, you can secure your knees and hold on to the bedside while your man stimulates your clit.
Either way, you are on top and can do whatever you want as long as it helps you reach the orgasm.
Reverse cowgirl
Reverse cowgirl is another empowering position with addition where you can feel yourself like a porn star. To place yourself in the position you don’t have to do anything gymnastic. Sit on top of your partner facing his feet. That’s it. To secure your position, you can hold on to his legs or feet.
Remember that men love that position as it opens up a fantastic view, just like in porn. They can see the penetration process up close and feel how wet you are. Great way to try some anal play ask your man to play with your anus using his finger or with little anal vibrator. Meanwhile, you can entertain your clit — triple way to get on your most sensitive private parts.
Don’t forget to use lube for anal and if needed for your vagina.
Lotus
Lotus sex position is intimate and is the main in tantric sex. To get into this one, your partner has to sit down and cross his legs. You would need to sit on top of him, facing his face, and wrap your legs around his back.
Lotus will get you to feel the penis deep inside. Because you are too close to each other and you would need to support your back, there might be no room for you to play with your clit, this is why penis ring will do the best job here. Your partner can also stimulate your anus for more.
Sideways straddle
Might be not the easiest position to be in but we say it’s worth trying. Make your partner lay on his back completely still. The trick of this position is that it seems to be very similar to the reverse cowgirl position, but the thick to be facing 1:00 clockwise and not the 12. Then the next logical question is where to put your legs. Don’t panic. You sit on top of him, placing your right leg on his side, so it is close to his ribs, the left leg goes under his left thigh. After bringing his right knee up to secure your position and help yourself to ride him well.
The position works well because while you are riding him, you can stimulate your clit against his skin. Add lube though. He has a good few here too. And the bonus for both of you is the feeling inside. He can feel your inner walls that would feel even tighter than usual, and you would feel it hitting different areas as well. Great position if you have your G-spot hidden further.
The bridge
This position may be looked at as an evolved missionary or reverse doggy. You can start by getting on your back after just pulling up your bum if it is hard to stay in that position for a while — use pillows to secure your back. Meanwhile, your partner should be facing you on his knees like before the doggy.
This position would make you feel fulfilled, and it is an easier way to reach G-spot during penetration. Also, let’s keep in mind that your clit is right there, all the way up, and in front of your partner’s face. He won’t be able to resist so put that remote vibrator not that far away.
The banana split
If we would give any sex position on this list a certain nomination no doubt that the banana split would get “The most intriguing position.” Just look at it, you are facing the bed on your stomach, while your lower body is all the way up wrapping around his hips. He should be in the same position as for the doggy position — on his knees. To make it not that tiring for you, he should hold on to your hips to help you keep them upper, you better keep your face down to the sheets and enjoy as much as possible.
And you will enjoy it only because it feels deeper and tighter for both of you. Plus, all the spanking that you can get won’t leave your panties dry.
Sexy spooning
We demand that everyone should have morning sex and pancakes. The last should be left to the food blogs, but morning sex is on us. Spooning sex position is officially the position for morning sex.
Since you’ve just opened your eyes and not ready to get all gymnastic — spooning is for you. While both of you are laying on your sides, both facing the same side, arch your back towards him and give him access to slide in slowly inside of you.
The position is quite intimate and can eventually evolve into another more active position. But give it a try — you will feel the penis quite deep and tight inside of you. Because of the side position, it will be easier to reach G-spot, and his hand can easily stimulate your clit.
Standing f*cking from behind in the shower
Another morning position. We all know that couples all over the world were saving water by showering together. You should try it too!
Once you enter the shower or the bath, you need to turn and be facing the wall with your man behind you. Let him slide in while you play with your clit. You can bring either your sex toy or why even bother if you have your shower handle.
Here where you can play the trick. Instead of him making all the moves, you can move against the water stream that would make your hips move too while the penis is inside of you. Or you both can move, find the same rhythm. The position is good for you to experiment, and since you are in the shower and relaxed after sleep, it won’t hurt to try squirt without the fear of peeing yourself.
All up to the ceiling
This sex position can be applied to any possible area in your apartment or elsewhere. To get ready for this position, you need to be laying on your back and he could either be standing on his feet or on his knees before penetration. Your legs should be all the way up to the ceiling. You can also rest your legs on his shoulders but make sure that your legs are looking up preferably 70-90 degrees.
Since your legs are up in the air, it gives better access to your vagina, which means a better chance of reaching G-spot. Your clit, meanwhile, is open for games. Your man can stimulate it using a vibrator or his fingers. You can also do it yourself as you please.
Standing doggy
This sex position is great to reach female orgasm. Yet it would require maybe a little bit of body stretching before. As during this pose you have to be facing the floor. Let us dive you in.
Your back is facing your partner, and you bend down to the floor, reaching with your hands the same floor for more stability. He is sliding in from behind, reaching the deepest point inside of you. To stimulate your clit, you can use the shower or waterproof toy, up to you, whatever is comfortable for you. Your partner can also be involved to stimulate your clit, let him play as well.
Side scissoring
One more intimate morning position for morning sex or whatever timing sex. Very easy to try and get the most pleasant joy as possible. Both of you are facing each other while laying on the side. You pull up your leg to wrap around his hip and at the same time giving him access to penetrate you. He can wrap his leg around your free leg, which will bring you closer to one another.
Because both of your bodies are very close to each other, that will create the rubbing stimulation of your clit against his thighs. You both can be initiators of moving. Either he is doing all the movements or you can slide up and down on your side, taking over control of the speed and the depth.
The up and over
A different variation of an old missionary position. It would seem like nothing fancy at first, yet the feeling that you would get from this position might get you thinking quite the opposite. Why? First of all, the position is common through porn videos that might get your man go crazy. Another reason is selfishness.
Just look at this. You are laying on your back, nothing weird, but then you pop up your legs up. And not just to the ceiling but to your head. Giving the views to your men and deeper feelings to yourself. Once you feel pain, though, you should stop.
The missionary from behind
A perfect mixture of doggy and missionary. To proceed with that, you would need to lay on your stomach and face the bed. Your partner, on the other side, should be laying on top of you, sliding in from behind.
This way, you can get all the possible penetration because your legs are almost close to each other; you can feel his penis inside being tighter as usual. The position also allows you to gently rub your clit for more stimulation.
The girl power
100% girls’ position — empowering and controlling, and the chance to feel like your partner who is usually on top. To get started with this position, get your man to lay on his back, he should stay straight. You are on top of him but not as a cowgirl position, but your legs are straight as well.
The position could seem tricky, but if you have enough patience, everything will work out well. The point here is to move slowly and explore each other’s bodies. You will feel differently, as everything is super extra tight. And the reason for that is that you should use your kegel muscle to stick to that penis. Also your clit will get stimulated by rubbing against him.
Child’s pose
We would rename this pose, but this explains the pose in its best way. To achieve that, you should sit on your heels and slowly lean forward. Keep in mind to hold your back as straight as possible. Meanwhile, your partner can either penetrate you standing or on his knees. Either way is right. The position is relaxing for a woman and great for taking more as she used to. You can play with depth and the speed to choose the one that would lead you to a bunch of orgasms. While you are leaning forward, you can take one hand and stimulate your clit.
Expert’s advice to reach stronger orgasms
Besides all the great positions to make it easier to reach the orgasm, do not forget about small things that could help you lead your body to the nirvana of orgasms.
Use sex toys
Choosing a sex toy according to your preferences might be revolutionary. Our most powerful tool is stimulation. The more we stimulate our clit or G-spot together with general penetration — the more chances to get to the stronger orgasms.
Focus on the journey
As much as we want you to cum, do not think only about that. Concentrate not to get the finished result but on the entire way to it. Feel as much as possible, and you would feel how the power of the orgasms is growing inside of you and ready to be released.
Keep lube next to you
Sometimes we can dry out right in the middle of the entire penetration. It’s nothing to do with you, it’s how a woman’s body works sometimes. Even the woman who is always wet can get dry in the middle of the long sex session. Lube will save you all the times.
Keep it hot with foreplay
Foreplay is an important part of any sexual activity. The hornier we get, the more hormones circulate in our body. With that being said, it is simply easy to get stronger orgasms because of all the build-up energy and tension.
To choose a couple of positions that will work for you every single time, you have to get some patience and experiment with your partner. Do not get upset if you won’t reach all the orgasms in the world right away, as long as you feel like you are on the right track — don’t stop.
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FAQ
What are the best positions to try if my boyfriend has a big penis?
The Girl Power position will bring a lot of joy for you to try so as laying doggy position. But basically, any position will work as long as you won’t feel pain during penetration.
Is it okay for me to use sex toys in bed during sex?
Totally! You should try sex with sex toys, it is completely okay, and the stimulation will help you to reach orgasms.
What position to try if I find missionary too boring for sex but my boyfriend likes it?
For instance, the up and over or the bridge positions are evaluated versions of a missionary position that will spice up sex without actually moving further from missionary.
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